Questions Questions Questions (and a Dream)
March 2, 2012

So.........I guess musing about all the negative 'what if's' isn't such a good idea, is it?  Okay, T will try to stay away from that from now until.........a new batch of nerves kicks in.  I must admit, something has shifted this week and I am getting a little excited.  Can you believe it?  Me?  Who doesn't get excited about anything is a little bit excited about my trip?    I say that's amazing!  Or maybe I am just high on.......NO! not the Dutch Coffee Houses (who do you think I am! :P )...........I was about to say Diet Coke.  :)    DCH or DC?  You make up your own mind.  LOL  (Wow, I am silly at the moment!)

Anyhow, I have a million questions.  Questions, questions, questions.  If anyone knows the answers, please leave a comment.  This is stuff they don't tell you on Trip Advisor!  First up:  B&B Etiquette.   I've never stayed at a B&B; although I am super excited about the one I'm staying at.  It's so beautiful!   Giant bed, balcony overlooking a tree lined street, wood floors, claw foot bathtub. (Yes, I will post pictures!) But I don't know the etiquette.  For example, here in North America, when you stay in a hotel (a hotel, not a B&B) it is customary to leave a tip every day for the cleaning staff.   Does one do that at a B&B as well?  Or is it considered rude?  Or maybe you just leave a tip at the end of your stay?  I have no idea.  Also, do you make your bed?  Or do you expect the proprieter to do it?  Seems a bit lazy to me - expecting the host/hostess to make your bed when you could very well do it yourself in about 10 seconds, but is that part of the service you pay for when you're at a B&B?  Again, no idea.  Obviously the towels, etc get changed every day, but the rest of it?   Dunno.   Will you help me out, please, if you do know?  

Question Two also revolves around tipping.   I read somewhere that you only tip in Europe if the service at the restaurant is good.  Is this true?  Because in North America, its customary to tip 15% regardless.  The wait staff relies on tips since the hourly wage is not usually very good.  But in Europe?  Again, I have no idea.  What is the standard?  And if you do tip, what percentage is acceptable?  15% like in Canada?  

Question Three.  The train system.  I was googling about the trains today.  I am so confused.  Very, very confused.  Is there an inter-city train system in Brussels, plus a national train system (to get to Antwerp for example?  Oh and that makes me think of a secondary question:  Is Anterwp the same place as Antwerpen?), plus a third train system if I want to go out of the country (to Paris, for example)?  Is there really that many train systems?  How do you figure it all out?  I'm pretty smart, but seriously, I think this could just about do me in.  While we're on the topic of trains........is it worthwhile to get some kind of rail pass?  Is that cheaper?  How exactly does it work?   I need a one way to Antwerp, return to Paris, return to Leuven and a one way from Leuven.  Does that warrant getting a rail pass?  I need to be economical with some things, if I can, and I think rail travel will be one of them.  But then again, maybe I am not travelling enough by rail to justify a pass.  I don't know!!!!!  I'm sooooooooooo confused!  HELP! 

Okay, I won't bore you with any more questions today, but I will tell you about my dream.  Do you want to read about my dream? (What's your dream? Anyone know the movie quote that's from?) (Skip ahead if you don't want to read about the dream :P)   I dreamed I was leaving on my trip.  And the British Airways jet was parked out in the middle of a field; surrounded by tents and pathways and hippies.  It was sort of like Woodstock, only without the music and the mud.  I was in endless, endless lineups, twisting and turning and I couldn't figure out why there were no bathroom facilities for all the people in the line.  Including me.   They kept announcing that the plane was leaving, but I was no where near being able to board; and I really really had to to go the loo.  So, I was dancing in the line up, to distract myself, and wondering why I decided to go to Belgium since they obviously weren't civilized and didn't have any toilets.  Finally, finally.........the line snaked around to an outhouse.  I was disgusted.  One outhouse for all these people.  They couldn't even be bothered to build flush toilets for their passengers?  Really?  So, I was complaining to someone behind me, and then of course I woke up.    Guess what?   It was 2 am, and I really did need to use the loo.    I'm almost scared to know how you are all going to analyze that one.  LOL 

Okay, that is enough pointless ramblings from me.  Hope you enjoyed this upbeat, question filled episode of What's Brewin.  And yes Dad, I will phone you momentarily to tell you a new blog is up, since you ask me every day about it!  :)    See you soon, Brew-Meisters!  (What do you think of that name?)  

T. 
xxx

PS:  I won a coffee on Tim's 'Roll up the Rim' contest!  Yay me!  (But I think I've had enough caffeine today, don't you?) 

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Here I am again.  :)  Just popping in with a picture of Antwerp or Antwerpen or Anvers (take your pick and why does it have so many names?  More questions! )  This is the train station.  Thanks Chris!  It's so magnificent.  We don't have things like this in Canada.  
Birgit
3/2/2012 06:34:42 am

Blimey!!!!!! T, that are a lot of questions
Ok, here we go...


Question 1: B&B etiquette.
Since it's usually the owner who cleans the room, you don't have to tip them every day. If you are happy about the service you can do so when you leave.
I don't think you have to make your own bed, but if you have a duvet, you can of course put it nicely and they'll rearrange it anyway ;)


Question 2: tipping.
In Belgium service is included in the price. So you don't really have to tip, but we do if it was very very good. Not 15%. But if you have to pay, let's say... € 23,50 we usually give € 25 and tell them to keep the change.


Question 3: trains.
Ok, this can get tricky, but I'll look everything up for you and write it down. What trains to get (French and Dutch), the timetables etc...
You were right...Antwerp and Antwerpen are the same. And so is Anvers. LOL


The train system is not that hard to figure out. Most trains are intercity trains. And if you travel to a larger city, it's even easier. There are trains from Brussels to Antwerp and Antwerp is the last stop, so no problem there.


If you want to go to Paris, you need an International train and book it a few days earlier. You can't use a rail pass for that since it's international.


Be careful with return tickets. Only buy them if you return the same day.

And if you're not sure if you'll be on the right train, look at the screen before getting in. In every station there are screens at the platform that tell you where the train goes and what stops it has. So...easy!

I hope this helps you a little. More questions? You know where I am! LOL

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T.
3/2/2012 10:33:51 am

B, I'm going to have to print all these things out and put them in my notebook! I'll never remember it all!! And I'm so glad you're going to help me with the trains, because I'm still confused! :P

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Chris
3/2/2012 07:11:46 am

Well B covered it all and very well :)
We do have flush toilets T lol but when in Paris you might find some peculiar ones on the left bank if they still have those ;)
I don't know if there's much difference in price between a common international train or a TGV ( train grand vitesse ) I do know the latter is pretty quick ! An hour and a half to get you from Brussels to Paris ;) but you have to make reservations beforehand ....
There's also a train between the airport and Brussels but that's a tricky one at least it was last august . You might look into taking a taxi .... more things to think of T , it will keep your mind busy lol
See you in 3 weeks and 5 days ( that's right because we entered march 3 already here : 0:10 am )

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T.
3/2/2012 10:37:20 am

I'm taking a taxi, Chris, don't worry. Me, navigating the train, after flying all night might not be the best idea. hehehe

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Birgit
3/3/2012 06:25:54 am

Chris, you think we should tell her about those toilets? LOL

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Chris
3/3/2012 06:41:21 am

LOL ! By all means no B ! Let T find out for herself :)))))

Mom & Dad
3/2/2012 07:57:42 am

Aren't you afraid of getting lost in all your travels? Dad wants to know don't you remember when we used to go out into the back country on he dirt roads---this is what we heard--We're lost , we will never find our way home, do we have enough gas, there's not going to be any bathrooms---well guess what we always got home and we always had enough gas and we found outhouses along the way. So you know what---ALL WILL BE OKAY.

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T.
3/2/2012 10:34:59 am

What about.......Are the bears going to eat us? LOL It's really a wonder I can function in society as well as I do, isn't it? :P

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B
3/2/2012 09:01:54 pm

Hi T!
It's me again! LOL

Why does Antwerp have so many names? Easy!
Officially it's Antwerpen, cause it's in the Dutch part of Belgium. So for the French it's Anvers and for the English Antwerp.
Like Brussel, Bruxelles, Brussels. Easy, no?

Now about your dream...
To dream that you are standing in line represents your need for patience. You need to learn to wait for something and not always have it right away (that sounds like me LOL)
To see green fields in your dream symbolize great abundance, freedom, and happiness. You may also be going through a period of personal growth.
To see an airplane in your dream indicates that you will overcome your obstacles and rise to a new level of prominence and status. You may experience a higher consciousness, new-found freedom and greater awareness. Perhaps you need to gain a better perspective or wider view on something. If the airplane is taking off, then it suggests that an idea or plan is about to "take off" and be put into action. It may also represent your need to get away and escape from your daily life (which you are since you're coming over!).
To see an outhouse in your dream suggests that you need to be more open with your feelings. You are holding something back, especially when it comes to your emotions.

And last but not least (you're going to love this!)...
To see a toilet in your dream symbolizes a release of emotions. You need to get rid of something in your life that is useless. Seeing a toilet in your dream may also be a physical manifestation brought about by a full bladder. The dream is attempting to get you up and to the bathroom.
LOL

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Nora
3/3/2012 07:14:10 am

T!!! You've managed to draw me into not only READING a blog for the first time ever, but POSTING on said blog!! I should have been here from the beginning, because now there is too much going on for me to remember everything I want to say.

First -- hi to all of you ID Forum escapees. Fun to see you here!!

Now -- T, from someone who has traveled alone extensively, you will absolutely love this trip. Just think -- no spats about which museum to visit, no one to take up more than half of the bed and yank the covers off, no tiffs about how many shoes you packed....and the list goes on and on!!

And speaking of shoes, you need only 4 pairs -- brown flats and heels, and black flats and heels. Then they'll go with anything you can wear (you know it's still too chilly up there to wear summer clothes in May, right?). And the heels shouldn't be 4-inch spikes -- you never know when you'll wind up on an unplanned hike!!

Moving on to music. I only thought of a couple of oldies for your iTouch. 'Respect' by Aretha Franklin -- you can play it for the waiters who turn rude because you don't speak their language. LOL And it's for YOU -- to respect yourself for taking this major leap of faith!! Then there's 'These Boots Were Made for Walking' by Nancy Sinatra, because you'll be doing a lot of walking. And one more -- 'La Vida Sin Amor' (you know who did that one!), just because it's fun! If I think of more, I'll add them later.

Next -- names. You'll find that all the names in Europe are different than you're used to. Because they're just different in their native form. When I was in Italy last year, Venice was Veneto and Florence was Firenza (I think). So expect the unexpected on signs.

French Fries -- funny thing. Every country thinks they invented them, but they didn't come from France. The 'French' just refers to how they're cut (which another one of your lovely readers mentioned also.

Okay -- I'm sure I'm about to wear out my welcome here, but one more suggestion: Luggage. Make sure you take the kind that has four roll-around wheels so it can go in all directions. It will be a huge help if you have to schlep your luggage for more than fifteen feet!!

I'm done (T says, thank heavens!). But I'll be back!! This is just too much fun to stay away.

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noraye
3/3/2012 07:45:10 am

I'm back!!

B, I just reread your comment. Did you really say 'Blimey'???? Not very Belgian of you!! But funny!

The real reason I popped back in is to click the 'Notify Me' button - I forgot to do it the first time around.

Ciao!

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Chris
3/3/2012 07:55:46 am

Hi Nora ((((waving)))) so nice to see you here :))))

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Chris
3/3/2012 07:57:17 am

Hi Nora ((((waving)))) so nice to see you here :)

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Birgit
3/3/2012 04:20:16 pm

Hi Nora!
One of my British friends taught me "Blimey" and I know T loves it when I use it! LOL

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3/5/2012 10:47:38 am

I have no answer to all your questions. I just want to join in the fray...of having fun LOL Always loved reading your blog posts, T. Ramble away. And the readers who comment here just add to the fun. Hello to B, Chris and Nora! Forum escapees? LOL!

Judyxxx

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Caelyn
3/5/2012 06:14:09 pm

remember how I said I was not going to invite myself on this trip. well, the picture changed my mind. lol

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T.
3/7/2012 10:03:30 am

Of course you can invite yourself on the trip, girl! I would love some company! Why do you think I invented the blog? So I wouldn't be all alone and could share it with everyone. Welcome aboard! :)

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